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Colorado Reader's avatar

Do young boys need to be redshirted or do they (and young girls) need for their fathers to take a red shirt?

Taking a redshirt as a father doesn't mean playing for the Bucs for one more year, in case you're wondering.

It means taking one year per child as primarily responsible parent. This time period roughly matches the time when women are primarily responsible parents during late pregnancy, delivery, lactation.

I am wondering if these educational delays in boys have to do with fathers not modeling that doing the grunt work is important?

Also, emotional availability in fathers is important for children to have emotional literacy about themselves, which provides motivation to learn and grow as well as the self control to focus in class and on homework?

So, why not advocate the fathers taking a redshirt to be primarily responsible parent (one year for each child) and to work on their emotional availability and literacy?

Why delay the boys to indulge bad daddery?

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Michelle Smith's avatar

I’m never heard the term redshirt, but in Australia its pretty much the norm to start boys later than girls. It became a trend 20 years ago and has continued. Evidence suggests gains for boys in infants/primary but evens out by high school and then you’ve got adult males in high school; the smart ones (like my son) resent the extra year, and those that don’t want to be there cause trouble for everyone. Boys are concentrated at the top and bottom ends, there is a wide range of ability and social skills, whereas girls tend to concentrate around the average. I also don’t see what difference it makes if they’re going to be in early learning/pre-school anyway. Presumably they’d have to repeat kindergarten which seems unfair.

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