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Mark Sherman's avatar

You write, "It was not very long ago that colleges were seen as places for men. Women have fought hard to get access, and are now dominating campuses in a way that men did just a generation ago. It is a remarkable and largely wonderful story. " I don't think it's largely wonderful. I am 81 years old, and have seen with my own eyes a time when women were not necessarily welcomed in higher education the way men were. The reaction was a very pro-women, and, sadly for boys, a very pro-girl movement. Girls and young women got tons of attention and support starting at least 35-40 years ago, and boys and young men were ignored. I remember the first "Take Our Daughters to Work" day in 1993, when girls were already doing better than boys in school. I remember the Sadkers' book "Failring at Fairness: How America's Schools Cheat Girls," published to acclaim in 1994, when girls were doing better than boys in schoool. When I pointed this out to David Sadker when he gave a keynote that year, he virtually laughed at me. The media, the academy, and the government have all but ignored boys for decades, and this not a "largely wonderful story." It's a sad and discouraging one, for which our country is paying a heavy price.

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Human Ecologist's avatar

I'm a few credits away from completing an MSW and can say the message I get the most is that we are tolerated at best but mostly not welcome. The bulk of support services overlook men and the common opinion seems to be that men have had their turn and it's no longer our time.

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